Just watched an interesting documentry about
l o v e.
Interpersonal love. It talked about three phazes.
1. Physical attraction, lust for want of a better word, an instant feeling based on smell, voice, appearance, social characteristics. So ladeez! what is it about a fellow that makes you say WOW!?
2. Romantic feelings, a rich imaginative, chemically powerful phaze. Described as a dopamine based addictive madness on the show! Gentlemen, are you as romantic as the ladies?
3. The most lasting Connection of familliarity and dependence and long term connectedness.
My long suffering love-ees well know that I'm a bit dysfunctional in this department. So help me out. What is love for you?
ARE YOU IN LOVE? What's it like?
I would love it if totteham beat charlton tonight!
l o v e.
Interpersonal love. It talked about three phazes.
1. Physical attraction, lust for want of a better word, an instant feeling based on smell, voice, appearance, social characteristics. So ladeez! what is it about a fellow that makes you say WOW!?
2. Romantic feelings, a rich imaginative, chemically powerful phaze. Described as a dopamine based addictive madness on the show! Gentlemen, are you as romantic as the ladies?
3. The most lasting Connection of familliarity and dependence and long term connectedness.
My long suffering love-ees well know that I'm a bit dysfunctional in this department. So help me out. What is love for you?
ARE YOU IN LOVE? What's it like?
I would love it if totteham beat charlton tonight!
posted by Mr.Thomas at 16:06
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OOOH! my fist blog spam experience! Exciting.
To save you time I visited the sites advertised here by anonymous free-loading slime. They are all rubbish, just schams. Please don't visit any of them.
No more posts with key words in them! Man, how annoying. Any genuine posts?
Hey Neil, you should delete these comments. Do you see the little bin at the bottom of every comment when you log into your blog? It means that you as the writer of the blog has the rights to delete comments you think inappropriate or unwanted on your blog.
Just to divert slightly, how do you change font like that? I haven't read the dashboard on blogger so I'm being lazy and asking you first. It looks cool.
I'm currently not in love and I think we've had this conversation face-to-face anyway so you already know my story. And it's a bit long to go into here....
Thanks Yan!!! I was trying to figure out how to do that!
re: your query...on the 'create post' page it just has a few word processor features there above the window; colour, font size etc.
yup, your story is still fresh in my mind. Thanks for sharing it with me!
It seems like most people never really get through the third stage judging by the number of divorces finishing in the first 2 years of marriage.
Nobody wants to experience pain eh?
WHAT A GAME! we LOVE you tottenham, we do! OOH, Tottenham we love you! FIGHTBACK!!!!
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i'd hate you to think that being in love is such a rareity that nobody in the whole of Blogworld could answer your question. so i'll give it a shot.
there's something with it.. being in love - that's beyond perfection... lets say cinderella and her glass slipper means a perfect fit... this is like me in my holiest, most worn-out and faded jumper. we've worn into each other - grown into each other over time. what do you call that? 'mine' is the only word i can come up with to describe it.
it feels like - how do you say? being completely desired, sometimes understood, or sometimes not, but always fascinated, and always endeared, periods of excruciating desire i never knew a human heart could endure. people around me tell me i look prettier all the time - its all because i am in that state. i mean, i am in love.
luckily, most people get a shot of this hit. hope it lasts!
Thanks. Sincere and a bit beautiful. I'm almost converted but...
You know I guess I am still love-a-phobic. I don't want to be emotionally held to ransom or be emotionally dependent.
The 'periods of excruciating desire' I really do react to that like I would do a huge spider (I hate spiders) I run a mile from it. I passionately don't want it.
When you wrote about growing into each other, becoming mutually blessed and blessing, i feel like saying thank God. It sounds beautiful and to explore and be with another person is a great adventure, should never be boring and is a stunning thought.
I am not sure I can do that though.
My life is also an adventure. Struggling,alone with my own musical, worshipful, beautiful 'toward God' adventure I nevertheless feel a bit sad that something in me isn't prepared to take risks and love another person the way God intended. Maybe I'a coward.
Thanks for your comment mystery woman. You sound prettier too! Thank God for Love!
for the longest time i was a coward too, but God is love. he's unstoppable. his plans for us are just right and he'll make us just right for his plans too.
if God is in charge then as long as you're working on your intimacy with the Father, he'll deal with your intimacy with people in time, that's a given. honestly - don't worry about it - just enjoy your singledom / your eligible bachelor status =)
you never know when he'll strike, just like love. most likely it'll creep up on you without you even knowing it, in the nicest possible way. and before you know it you'll have forgotten why you were so scared before. he will give you the brave-ness to carry out whatever he has in store for you.
he is the biggest love of our lives.
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